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Bisexuality

Bisexuality is a broad and inclusive term that describes sexual, romantic and/or emotional attraction to those of the same/similar gender and to those of a different gender.

Some Important Points To Note:

  • People may or may not experience this attraction in differing ways or to differing degrees over their lifetime.

  • A bi person may or may not have a preference for one gender more than others.

  • Attraction to both the same and different means attraction to all. Bisexuality is inherently inclusive of everyone, regardless of gender.

Sources:
Bi 101
What is Bisexuality?
Understanding Bisexuality
Bisexual FAQ
Bisexual Definition | LGBTQ Center
Bisexual Identity
A Quick Guide to Understanding Bisexuality
The “Bi” in Bisexuality Doesn’t Mean Two Genders
Defining Bisexuality Masterdoc

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The Bisexual Manifesto

The Bisexual Manifesto was written in 1990 and was included in an issue of Anything That Moves, a bi magazine created by the Bay Area Bisexual Network. A full transcription, including background info can be found here

"We are tired of being analyzed, defined, and represented by people other than ourselves—or worst yet, not considered at all. We are frustrated by the imposed isolation and invisibility that comes from being told or expected to choose either a homosexual or heterosexual identity. Monosexuality is a heterosexist dictate used to oppress homosexuals and to negate the validity of bisexuality.

Bisexuality is a whole, fluid identity. Do not assume that bisexuality is binary or duogamous in nature; that we must have "two" sides or that we MUST be involved simultaneously with both genders to be fulfilled human beings. In fact, don't assume that there are only two genders. Do not mistake our fluidity for confusion, irresponsibility, or an inability to commit. Do not equate promiscuity, infidelity, or unsafe sexual behavior with bisexuality. Those are human traits that cross ALL sexual orientations. Nothing should be assumed about anyone's sexuality—including your own.

We are angered by those who refuse to accept our existence; our issues; our contributions; our alliances; our voice. It is time for the bisexual voice to be heard. Do not expect each magazine to be representative of all bisexuals, for our diversity is too vast. Do not expect a clear-cut definition of bisexuality to jump out from the pages.

We bisexuals tend to define bisexuality in ways that are unique to our own individuality. There are as many definitions of bisexuality as there are bisexuals. Many of us choose not to label ourselves anything at all and find the word 'bisexual' to be inadequate and too limiting. Do not assume that the opinions expressed are shared by all bisexuals, by those actively involved in the Bisexual Movement, by the ATM staff, or the BABN Board of Directors."

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The Bisexual Umbrella

An umbrella term is a word or phrase covering a broad range of related things that are different from each other but all belong to the same category. Bisexuality is an umbrella term encompassing a wide range of identities, labels, terms and attractions that all fit the scientific definition of bisexuality.

Just as there are millions of ways to be straight, gay, lesbian, or asexual, there are as many ways to be bi as there are bi people. No one word can fully capture the nuances of personality, culture, beliefs, or personal preference; no word should try to. The term bisexuality makes no such pretense— it is a general and inclusive term that encompasses everyone; all sexes and all genders. That does not mean that bi people are attracted to everyone, simply that bi people’s attractions aren’t limited by sex or gender.

Some people under the bi umbrella use different labels to describe their sexual orientation, such as polysexual (attraction to multiple genders, but not all), pansexual (attraction to those of any or all genders; attraction regardless of gender) and omnisexual (attraction to those of all genders, with gender playing a role in that attraction).

Some people prefer the term fluid meaning that attractions do not fit into any neat category, and may shift while including people of more than one gender over time. These labels can be used by themselves or as additional descriptors. Some people feel that their sexuality, while not limited by sex or gender, is best left unlabeled because it is not central to their sense of self.

If these terms all seem to mean the same thing, that is because they basically do! Still, these words have value in that they allow people to describe their sexuality in ways that feel more comfortable or precise. They allow people to express their identity; how they see and understand themselves and want to be seen by others.

It’s helpful to note that although anyone who experiences both homosexual (same-gender) and heterosexual (different-gender) attractions is bisexual according to the scientific definition, that does not mean that they will label themselves or even think of themselves (identify) as bi.

Some people benefit from using these labels instead of bisexuality, but others do not. These labels exist to describe specific experiences that a bi person may experience, but that does not mean that everyone wants to use them or even feels comfortable using them.

Bisexuality is broad and encompasses many different experiences. There is no one clear-cut definition of bisexuality, as it is often personally defined in ways unique to one’s own individuality. Telling a bisexual person they're actually another label because of how they experience their sexuality erases the inherent fluidity of bisexuality and the diversity of the bi community.

While labels like pan, omni, and poly may sometimes be included in bisexuality and may be used synonymously with bisexual, this does not mean pan/omni/poly people have to consider themselves bi or identify as such and vice versa with bisexuals and labels like pan/omni/poly.

It is ultimately up to the individual to decide what they feel most comfortable identifying as or which label they connect to the most, and that can be bisexual, any other label. Some people even identify with multiple labels and use them interchangeably.

Bi+ Community: An encompassing term for people with the capacity to be attracted to multiple genders and sexes. The bi+ community includes anyone who identifies as bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, polysexual, fluid, queer, other labels or even unlabeled. This may also be referred to as m-spec (short for multisexual spectrum).

Sources:
Bi.org
Bi Resource Center
Personal and Political Labels
What Does “M-spec” Mean?
Under the Bisexual Umbrella: Diversity of Identity and Experience
Human Rights Campaign
The Trevor Project
Definitions of Pansexuality to Avoid
Are Bisexuality and Pansexuality as Different as People Say?

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This is a transcription of ‘Bisexual Movement'. This essay, co-authored by Robyn Ochs and Liz Highleyman, appeared in Lesbian Histories and Cultures: An Encyclopedia. Ed. Bonnie Zimmerman, pp. 112-114. (Garland, 2000). It provides a brief history of the US bisexual movement from the 1970s through the 1990s.

Evolution of The Bisexual Movement

The 1970s marked the beginning of the modern bisexual movement. The bi movement of the 1990s consists of social, support and political groups throughout the United States and other parts of the world.

The Early Years

The earliest bisexual organizations in the United States grew out of the sexual liberation movement or “sexual revolution,” which was, in turn, fueled by the women’s liberation movement, the gay liberation movement, and the legalization of, and increased access to, birth control. A number of bisexuals were active in the formation of various chapters of the Sexual Freedom League. The National Bisexual Liberation Group was founded in 1972 in New York City. The Bi Forum, also in New York City, began in 1975. The Bisexual Center in San Francisco, California, formed in 1976, and Bi Ways in Chicago, Illinois, began in 1978.

These years spanned the era of “bisexual chic,” in which popular media publicized the bisexuality of rock stars and artists. The earliest bisexual groups were primarily social in focus, although some included a political element as well. The 1970s also saw the publications of several books about bisexuality. Janet Bode’s View From Another Closet (1976) was perhaps the first, followed [among others] by Charlotte Wolf’s Bisexuality: A Study (1977), and Fritz Klein’s The Bisexual Option: A Concept of One Hundred Percent Intimacy (1978).

The Second Wave

Many bisexuals were active within the gay liberation, and later the lesbian and gay, movement. However, several factors, including an increased focus on identity politics and hostility and rejection by some lesbians and gay men, led some bisexuals to create separate bisexual organizations.

The “second wave” of bisexual organizing, beginning in the early 1980s, was largely women led, and was strongly influenced by feminism. Many of the women involved in bisexual organizing in the 1980s had been, and were still, active in the gay, lesbian feminist, and women’s movements. Feminist bisexual women’s organizations were formed in Boston, Massachusetts (1983); Chicago (1984); New York City (1983); and Seattle, Washington (1986). While in the 1970s most groups were of mixed gender, in the 1980s a number of women-only bi groups and a smaller number of bisexual men’s groups formed.

The bisexual groups of the 1980s focused on providing support and social opportunities, and a number became increasingly involved in political organizing as well, especially in the wake of the AIDS epidemic in the early 1980s. The number of bi groups continued to grow throughout the 1980s in the United States, the United Kingdom, the Netherlands, Germany, Scandinavia, Canada, Australia and New Zealand. The mid-1980s saw the first bisexual groups devoted to political activism (San Francisco’s BiPol, and Boston’s Bisexual Committee Engaging in Politics [BiCEP], and the first regional bisexual networks (the East Coast Bisexual Network and the Bay Area Bisexual Network).

While some bisexuals focused on the creation of organizations for and by bisexual people, others were organizing within lesbian and gay communities. A major focus of the bi movement in the 1980s was to seek inclusion and recognition for bisexuals within lesbian and gay groups. Some formerly “lesbian and gay” organizations changed their titles or their statements of purpose to include bisexual people, while others chose not to. This was especially evident on college campuses, as many campus groups, which had in the 1970s had changed their names to add “lesbian,” did the same in the 1980s with “bisexual” (and increasingly in the 1990s, with”transgender”). In some areas of the country, inter-community relationships, particularly between some lesbians and bisexual women, remained tense; in other areas, bisexuals were more readily welcomed.

Bis Organize More Widely

In June 1990, San Francisco’s BiPol organized the first national conference on bisexuality, with a focus on consolidating a nationwide bi organization, then known as the North American Multicultural Bisexual Network. In 1991, at a meeting in Seattle, the organization was renamed BiNet (Bisexual Network of the USA). The second U.S. national conference took place in 1993 in conjunction with the March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay and Bi Equal Rights and Liberation, the first national march to mention bisexuals by name.

The first U.S. regional conference on bisexuality was held in Hartford, Connecticut, in 1984. By the early 1990s, there were regional conferences taking place annually in the Northwest, the Southwest, Southern California, the Midwest, and the Northeast. The first International Conference on Bisexuality was held in Amsterdam in 1991. Other international conferences have been held in London (1992), New York City (1994), and Berlin (1996), and Boston (1998).

Bisexuality in Literature and Academia

The 1990s saw an increase in the participation of college students in the bi movement and greater bisexual visibility in literature and academia. There was another wave of books about bisexuality, this time including anthologies that focused on personal experiences, such as the influential Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out (1990).

The record-setting year was 1995, which saw the publication of numerous studies and anthologies by both mainstream and alternative presses, including the Bisexual Resource Guide (Bisexual Resource Center). The first national bisexual magazine, Anything that Moves: Beyond the Myths of Bisexuality, had begun publication in 1991. Computer newsgroups, electronic mailing lists and chat lines helped connect bisexuals across geographic lines. The first college course focusing on bisexuality was taught at the University of California at Berkeley in 1990, followed by a course the next year at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, and several more in subsequent years at Tufts University.

Conclusion

Not unlike lesbian and gay organizations, bisexual organizations have developed in a number of different directions. Some bisexual people focus on organizing for, and with, other bisexual people. Others focus on working within “lesbian and gay,” “lesbian, gay and bisexual,” “lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender,” or “queer” organizations to educate heterosexuals, fight homophobia, advocate for civil rights legislation, and build community. Still others are interested in creating a broad sex and gender liberation movement that is not as focused on identity politics. And like many lesbians and gay men, many bisexual people are not involved in any organizations or movements at all, choosing instead to focus their energies on their individual lives.

Bibliography

Bisexual Anthology Collective, ed. Plural Desires: Writing Bisexual Women’s Realities. Toronto: Sister Visiohn, 1995.

Hutchins, Loraine and Lani Ka’ahumanu, eds. Bi Any Other Name: Bisexuals Speak Out. Boston: Alyson, 1990.

Off Pink Collective, Bisexual Lives. London: Off Pink Publishing, 1988.

Rose, Sharon, et al., eds. Bisexual Horizons: Politics, Histories, Lives. London: Lawrence and Wishart, 1996.

Tucker, Naomi, ed. Bisexual Politics: Theories, Queries, & Visions. Binghamton, NY: Haworth, 1995.

Learn More About Bi History:
In-Depth History of Bisexuality
Bisexual U.S History Chronology
Bisexual Movements
Bisexual Activism
The Bisexual Warriors of the “Gay” Movement
LGBTQ Heritage | Making Bisexuals Visible
History of Bisexuality As An Orientation
Bisexuality In The Han Dynasty
Bi+ History
Bisexuality: A Critical Reader

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Bisexuals to Know

Activists
Brenda Howard
Lani Ka’ahumanu
A. Billy Jones Hennin
Dr. Ibrahim Farajaje
Donny The Punk
Michael Strange
Malcolm X
Emiliano Zapata

Writers
June Jordan
Alice Dunbar Nelson
Loraine Hutchins
William Shakespeare
Walt Whitman
Virginia Woolf
Anaïs Nin
Colette
Jane Bowles
Edna St. Vincent Millay
Ana Castillo
Florence Virginia King
Kate Millet
Alice Walker
Rebecca Walker
Roxane Gay
Liz Highleyman
Robyn Ochs
Juana María Rodríguez
Julia Serano

Musicians and Entertainers
Nina Simone
Sister Rosetta Tharpe
Josephine Baker
Billie Holiday
Bessie Smith
Ma Rainey
Ethel Waters
Marilyn Monroe
Whitney Houston
Grace Jones
Freddie Mercury
James Dean
Katharine Hepburn
Sir Alec Guinness
Cary Grant
Joan Baez
Brenda Fassie
Janet Gaynor
Greta Garbo
Tallulah Bankhead
Leslie Hutchinson
Emile Griffith

Artists
Frida Kahlo
Jean-Michel Basquiat
Amrita Sher-Gil
Marie Laurencin

Historical Figures
Julie d'Aubigny
Eleanor Roosevelt
Alexander The Great
Alfred Kinsey
Fritz Klein

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General Resources
Bi 101
Understanding Bisexuality
What Is Bisexuality?
Bisexual Identity
Bisexual FAQ
LGBTQ Center: Bisexual Definition
A Quick Guide to Understanding Bisexuality
Bi and Pan
The Bisexual Umbrella
What Does "M-spec" Mean?
Bisexuality: Myths and Realities
Myths and Truths About Bisexuality
The "Bi" In Bisexual Doesn't Meant Only Two
I Think I Might Be Bi or Pan
Guide To Coming Out As Bisexual
Coming Out As Bisexual To Your Doctor
5 Tips For When Coming Out As Bi Goes Badly
Mental Health As a Bi+ Person
Defining Bisexuality Masterdoc
Definitions of Pansexuality to Avoid
Are Bisexuality and Pansexuality as Different as People Say?
Does Liking a Nonbinary Person Make You Bi or Pan? Not Necessarily

Representation
Bi Characters In Fiction
Famous Bi People
Books With Bisexual Rep
Pansexual Representation
The Bi Pan Library
Bi Women Quarterly
Bisexual Booklist
The B Word: Bisexuality In Contemporary Film and Television

History
A Short History of the Word ‘Bisexuality’
History of Bisexuality as an Orientation
The Evolution of the Word 'Bisexual' and Why it's Still Misunderstood
Comparing Historical and Modern Descriptions of Bisexuality and Pansexuality
A Brief History of the Bisexual Movement
PAST Out: What is the history of the bisexual movement?
The U.S. Bisexual+ Movement: A #BiWeek History Lesson
The Bisexual Warriors of the “Gay” Movement
Bisexual U.S History Chronology
The Bisexual History They Don't Want You To Know
Primary Source Set: Bisexual Activism
LGBTQ Heritage: Making Bisexuals Visible
Bisexual Literature
Social Sciences: Bisexuality
The History of The Bi Pride Flag
How Did The First Celebrate Bisexuality Day Happen?
History of Bisexuality since Stonewall
Bisexuality in Film
The Evolution of Bi Representation in Film (Part 1)
The Evolution of Bi Representation in Film (Part 2)
Timeline: The Bisexual Health Movement In The U.S
The Bisexual History of HIV/AIDS, in Photos
How the AIDS Pandemic Fed Biphobia
Legally Bi: A Brief History of Bi Erasure in LGBTI Political Discourse
Who Were The Black Women-Loving-Women of The Blues and Jazz Era?
Ma and Bessie: Queens of the Bisexual Blues
Bisexuality in Han Dynasty China
Bisexuality in the Ancient World
The Bisexual Manifesto (ATM Manifesto)
Anything That Moves Archive
Archive of the Boston Bisexual Women's Network Newsletter
NYC’s Bisexual History
D.C’s Bisexual History
Femme as a Queer Identity
Where Does the Idea that “Bi Women Bring (Predatory) Men into WLW Spaces” Come From?
Inescapable Essentialism: Bisexually-Identified Women's Strategies in the Late 80s and Early 90s
Neutralizing the Political Threat of the Marginal Woman
Being There and Being Bi
Bisexual Histories in San Francisco in the 1970s and Early 1980s
Bisexual Activism in the 70s: The San Francisco Bisexual Center
San Francisco's Bisexual Center and the Emergence of a Bisexual Movement
History of the Bisexual Resource Center
History of the Bay Area Bi+ and Pan Network
History of the Maine Bisexual People’s Network
First Person Biography of a Bisexual US Army Veteran
A Look Back at One Bi Veteran’s Story
Lani Ka'ahumanu at the 1993 March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay and Bi Equal Rights and Liberation
Bisexuality in Psychoanalytic Theory: Interpreting the Resistance
A Brief History of the Term “Monosexuality
The Bisexual Community: Are We Visible Yet?
BiTransAction – 1996 National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
San Francisco Bay Area Women’s Newspaper June, 1982
Bisexual Inclusion in the 1993 March on Washington
If You Really Love Someone You’ll Tell Them the Truth
History of Pansexuality
Pansexuality’s Troubled Past and Present
Are All Vampires Bi?
A Bisexual History of Dracula
The Bloomsbury Group wasn’t ‘unconventional’. It was bisexual

Bisexual Issues
What is Biphobia?
Bisexual Fact Sheet
Biphobia: It Goes More Than Two Ways
Bisexual Erasure
Biphobia and Monosexism
Invisible Majority: Disparities Facing Bisexual People and How To Remedy Them
Snapshot: Bisexual In America
Understanding Issues Facing Bisexual Americans
Bisexual Invisibility: Impacts and Recommendations
LGBT in Britain: Bi Report
The Bisexuality Report: Bisexual Inclusion in LGBT Equality and Diversity
Complicated: Bisexual Experiences With Inclusion
Health Disparities Among Bisexual People
Bisexuality and Health: The Cost of Invisibility
Bisexuality: Stonewall Health Briefing
Bisexual Health Fact Sheet
Bisexual Microaggressions in Medical Contexts
Bi+ Youth: Sexual and Reproductive Health
Mental Health in the Bi+ Community: Biphobia, Bi Erasure, & Getting Help
Mental Health Facts for Bisexual Populations
Mental Health in the Bisexual Community
Why Are Mental Health Issues Greater Among Bisexual People?
Bisexual Mental Health: Findings from the ‘Who I Am’ Study
Perceived Determinants of Mental Health for Bisexual People: A Qualitative Examination
Bisexual Individuals are at Greater Risk of Poor Mental Health than Lesbians and Gay Men
Bisexuality, Minority Stress, and Health
Representation and Erasure of Bisexual People of Color
Bisexual Men More Prone to Eating Disorders
How Biphobia Impacts Black Bisexual Men's Health
Psychosocial Health Disparities Among Black Bisexual Men in the U.S.
Risk and Protective Factors for Sexual Health Outcomes Among Black Bisexual Men in the U.S.
Disparities in Bi+ Health and Sexual Violence
Why Do Bi Women Face Higher Rates of Sexual Violence?
Bisexual Women and Sexual Violence
Why Bi Women Are at a Higher Risk for Violence
Bisexual Women Have Increased Risk of Intimate Partner Violence
Bisexual Women and Intimate Partner Violence
Bisexual Women are More Likely to Face Abuse – and no one is asking why
Why Bi People are More Vulnerable to Partner Violence
Bisexual Women at Greater Risk of Domestic Abuse...but Why?
Understanding Sexual Violence Against Bisexual Women
5 Reasons Why Oversexualizing Bisexuality Is Not Supportive
Bisexual Women Experience Hypersexual Stigma
Bisexual Women Are Not Your Fantasy
Why So Many Bisexuals are Victimized
Bi+ Youth: Bullying and Interpersonal Violence
Bi+ Youth Report
Supporting and Caring for Bi+ Youth
The Bisexual Youth Experience
Bi+ Youth: Biphobia, Coming Out, and Community
Bi+ Transgender Youth
A Closer Look: Bisexual Transgender People
Bi+ Youth of Color
Why Bi Representation On Screen Matters When Thinking About Intimate Partner Violence
Bisexuality and Poverty
Ignorant Judges are Sending Bisexual Asylum Seekers to Their Deaths
Invisible Majority: Bisexual People Seeking Asylum “Not Worthy of Belief”
Why Are Bisexual Asylum Seekers Almost Completely Invisible?
On The Government of Bisexual Bodies: Asylum Case Law and The Biopolitics of Bisexual Erasure
Neither Here nor There: The Bisexual Struggle for American Asylum
The Invisible Minority: Discrimination Against Bisexuals in the Workplace
Employment Discrimination Against Bisexuals: An Empirical Study
Asylum for Bisexual People
A Closer Look: Bisexual Older Adults
Talking About Bisexuality and Aging
Health Equity and Aging of Bisexual Older Adults: Pathways of Risk and Resilience
Roadmap to Bisexual Inclusion
The B Word: The Erasure of Bisexuality in Cinema
The Bisexual Seen: Countering Media Misrepresentation
Where Does The Media's Portrayal of Bisexuality Go From Here?
The Trope of the Evil Television Bisexual
TV Tropes and Bisexuality in Men and Women
TV Producers, Stop Portraying Bisexuals as Villains
The Affirming Power of Research For Bi People
Bisexual's Experience With Acceptance

Readings
Bisexual Basics
What's In a Name: Why Women Embrace or Resist Bisexual Identity
Bisexuality and Women
Queer Politics, Bisexual Erasure
Reclaiming “Bisexual”
Concepts of Bisexuality
The Question of Binary, or: Why “Bi” is Binary but “FTM” is not
Thirteen Ways of Looking at a Bisexual
Why Bisexuality Is Queer
Queering Queer Theory, or Why Bisexuality Matters
Under the Bisexual Umbrella: Diversity of Identity and Experience
Pansexual and Panromantic People’s Understandings of Their Identities and Experiences of Becoming Educated about Gender and Sexuality
Does the Pansexual Label Really Hurt Anyone Though?
On Hyperpersonalized Sexual Identity
“Experts” Voices: Lesbianism, Bisexuality, and the Social Sciences
Bisexual Women’s Voices: What Do Bisexual Women Think about Bisexuality and the Role of Bisexuals in Sexual Politics?
Another Revolution on the Political Wheel: The Politicization of Bisexuality
Lesbians’ Voices: What Do Lesbians Think about Bisexuality and Its Role in Sexual Politics?
Who Believes What?: The Impact of Lesbians’ Personal Politics and Experiences on Their Attitudes toward Bisexuality
The Pink and Blue Herring: The Issue Is Lesbianism, Not Bisexuality
Playing with Butler and Foucault: Bisexuality and Queer Theory
Blatantly Bisexual
Ambiguous Identity in an Unambiguous Sex/Gender Structure: The Case of Bisexual Women
Bi-Negativity: The Stigma Facing Bisexual Men
“…And Then There was the Down Low”: Introduction to Black and Latino Male Bisexualities
The Bisexual To Be Corrected: Interrogating The Threat And Recuperation Of Women 's Femme Bisexuality
Pansies Against Patriarchy: Gender Blur, Bisexual Men, and Queer Liberation
Fence Sitters, Switch Hitters, and Bi-Bi Girls: An Exploration of "Hapa" and Bisexual Identities
Bisexuality: From Margin to Center
The Future of Bisexual Activism
Bridging Bisexual Erasure in LGBT-Rights Discourse and Litigation
A Bi Jurisprudence
Sexual Liberty and Same-Sex Marriage: An Argument from Bisexuality
‘What Do They Look Like and Are They among Us?
Out of the Darkness and Into the Shadows: The Evolution of Contemporary Bisexuality
Bisexuality in Media: A Dangerous Game of Telephone
Shady Characters, Untrustworthy Partners, and Promiscuous Sluts: Creating Bisexual Intimacies in the Face of Heteronormativity and Biphobia
Bi Women’s Understandings of Social Marginalization